- He compliments you out of the blue
- He loves talking to you
- He tries to keep tabs on your love life
- He shares details about his married life or refrains from doing so
- He goes out of his way to help you
- He tries to highlight the similarities between the two of you
- His body language is a huge indicator of his love
- He takes out time especially for you
- He tries to stay in touch with you regularly
- He gives top priority to your opinions
- He always behaves perfectly when he is around you
- You have a strong gut feeling about his love
For starters, he would end up giving you all the attention you ever wanted in this world. A married man cares for you if he goes out of his way to be extra pleasant.
He is extremely well-mannered, has the confidence that comes from having proved himself (he probably has a good job or is a successful businessman), and has eyes only for you but in an almost innocent manner. You can instantly read the signs a married man is attracted to you.
women love attention since it becomes so scarce to come by from their husbands. Once you are married or hitched to your partner just doesn’t seem so crazy about you anymore.
And when you are single and have put in hours to do the hair, make-up and wear that simply gorgeous outfit which makes you look very attractive you want people to be nice, especially men.
You enjoy his company so much and it seems harmless, you do not worry much about the ring on his finger. But as time passes the casual messages become personal and the easy attitude becomes a little demanding.
You know now that this is not something casual as you thought it to be, your gut tells you that a married man is falling in love with you.
For once, it can feel flattering. But what you will do about it is another matter.
And if he is not the only married man interested in you, you may be wondering why do you attract only married men?
You may not want to indulge in an affair with a married man but you would still like to know if what he is feeling for you genuine or you are imagining it. How you decide to handle this complicated situation depends on you. If a married man likes you, will you be dating him? But find out first if there is chemistry between the two of you.
We, women, love attention since it becomes so scarce to come by from our husbands. Once you are married or hitched to your partner just doesn’t seem so crazy about you anymore.
And when you are single and have put in hours to do the hair, make-up and wear that simply gorgeous outfit which makes you look very attractive you want people to be nice, especially men.
1. He compliments you out of the blue
Women love compliments, don’t they? When a married man compliments you for your qualities, looks, dress sense, professional life, etc. especially when you least expect it, then it means that he is interested in you and wants you to know that. The compliments might seem harmless in the beginning, but then gradually the married man will be more direct with his compliments. To ensure that you get his motive, he will compliment you more often. This is to make you notice him. Especially so because of not many men compliment. And if you notice only you are being showered with praises, there has to be something more than just being nice.These are actually hidden signs that a married man is in love with you. There may come a point when you feel he is also flirting with you, under the disguise of being ‘genuinely nice’.
2. He loves talking to you
A married man who likes you would not leave any opportunity to talk to you. Whether it is the latest movies, the latest gig on politics, or some serious topic – he would want to discuss everything with you.You will notice that when he talks to you, he will be cheerful and the tone of his voice will be lively. He will always be trying to initiate conversations with you and will try his hardest to hold your attention when you are around him.
3. He tries to keep tabs on your love life
Your relationship status is perhaps his gravest concern and he will want to find out whether you are available or not as he is falling in love with you. If you already have someone in your life, then he will probably air negative opinions about that someone, because he will be jealous for sure. He will keep regular tabs on your love life in an effort to wait for the right time to express his love for you.
4. He shares details about his married life or refrains from doing so
When a married man likes you he either discusses way too many details about his married life with you or does not even mention it at all. If he does the former, then it means that he is giving you an indication that he is not happy in his married life. He probably wants you to know that he is available for you. You can sum this up if he rarely brings his spouse to office parties and get-togethers. Perhaps, the other colleagues haven’t seen his wife ever. If he avoids sharing any details about his married life, then he is probably overwhelmed with guilt and wants to forget the fact that he is married so that he can be with you. He likes you and perhaps regrets being married already.
5. He goes out of his way to help you
The fact that a married man has fallen in love with you becomes apparent when he does everything in his power to help you when you are facing a problem. He might be helping you because he is friendly, but if he is always there by your side, then it means he deeply cares about you. He will not even think twice before resolving any of your issues. Your laptop broke down and he immediately ordered one online. He got it delivered in a day because you had a project going. He even slipped a word of appreciation for your work to the boss because he is pally with him. You don’t have to be a genius to get these simple things!
6. He tries to highlight the similarities between the two of you
He will keep hinting at the fact that you are the type of girl he likes and that you two have a lot in common. If he makes efforts to find what really connects you both, it is clear that a married man is attracted to you. Not only he makes the effort to know what appeals to you, but he may also even show his interest in the same activity. This was he even has more stuff to talk with you about. Before you succumb, let us tell you that an affair with a married man can be quite a complicated, messy journey.
7. His body language is a huge indicator of his love
Instead of straightforwardly confessing his love for you, a married man will use his body language to express his love. He will get nervous around you, will lean towards you while talking to you, make continuous eye contact with you, will smile at you as if you mean the world to him, and will take every chance to touch you as well. Notice how he walks. How much space he takes when he sits around you. He tries to show that he is at the top of the hierarchy. You can know how a married man feels about you by checking his body language signs of attraction! This is how you will know if a married man is falling in love with you. His fingers will inadvertently brush yours. He will be often seen licking his lips. Perhaps he looks a lot at you. He always dresses up impeccably and often takes your opinion while shopping for clothes and shoes online.
8. He takes out time especially for you
As a married man, his priority should be to give time to his wife and family. However, if he is taking out time especially for you during the weekends and even during the weekdays, then you mean something to him and this is a hidden sign that the married man is in love with you. He could give up his seminars, conferences abroad, or boy time at the bar to be with you. When he does spend time with you, he will try his hardest to make sure that you are comfortable and happy. He even gets down to gardening with you, doing DIY stuff, or just relax together with bottles of wine. If you are under the weather, he may get soup for you and run a few of your errands. Well, he clearly likes you more than you think.
9. He tries to stay in touch with you regularly
A married man who cares for you will try to stay in touch with you either through text messages or calls. And he will expect you to reply too. In case you fail to reply to his text messages or forget to call him back, then chances are he will get super hyper about it. He will constantly try to contact you because he wants to get to know you better and make his presence felt in your life. He wants to know all that you have been doing when you are out of his sight. He finds you irresistible, and he will make it clear in every possible way. When he is away he sends you flowers, cakes, wine, and gifts online, just to tell you he’s missing you. Basically, a married man who likes you will go out of his way just to make his presence felt in your life.
10. He gives top priority to your opinions
Your opinions and thoughts related to marriage, cheating, love, and any other topics will mean a lot to him. So, he will give importance to your opinions and wishes and will try to shape himself accordingly.He will try to be a better boyfriend to you by all means, even if you do not think of him that way. Even when he is in trouble, he will reach out to you for suggestions. By giving importance to your opinions, he is giving you an indication that he is interested in you.
11. He always behaves perfectly when he is around you
He portrays himself as the perfect gentleman when he is around you. He tries to be charming, chivalrous, and brightens up the atmosphere by making you laugh. He wishes to impress you by all means. He does this so that you can see him as an interesting and unique person and not a serious and boring married man. Even his interactions with other people when you are around will be very pleasant because he wants to show his best side to you. He wants you to believe that he is a bold, empowered, strong man who is highly intelligent, confident, and successful.
12. You have a strong gut feeling about his love
Deep down in your heart, you get the strong gut feeling that the married man is falling in love with you. You can keep fooling yourself by saying that he just cares for you because you are his friend, but the reality is that he likes you and you cannot keep denying it. However, if you do consider taking the plunge and dating him, do it safely and without getting hurt. A married man can deeply care for you but a relationship with him does bring about complications. You need to know that.